c o v e r s t o r y
Coming out of the Queer Closet
by Nedhera Landers

f e a t u r e s
A Response to Alix Dobkin's article "Queer & Present Danger"
by De-Anna Alba
Living Deliberately
by Mowani Carter
The Queering of Femininity
by Susan Craigie

c o l u m n s
Health
by Dr. Lipstick
Wealth
by Ms. Moneygrrl
Sex
by SexySuzi
Advice
by Victoria
Fashion
by Fran Fatale
Femme Perspective
by Christine
Butch Perspective
by Daddy Rhon

Publisher's Note
Letter from the Editor
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Letter From the Editor

Hello and welcome to Femme: the magazine, where we will explore what it is to be femme. What does it look like, how does it feel, and how do we think and talk about our lives as femme lesbians. Did we always accept our femme selves, or was its discovery and expression an unexpected gift found sometime after we first came out?

I believe it was Kate Bornstein who said there are as many genders as there are people. Well, I believe there are as many ways to be femme as there are femmes. And yet, we are often aware that there are common threads. At times our similarities are uncanny. Many of us yearn for the comfort of community, of being one among sisters, and we may try to see congruence where very little exists. But the experience and palpable sense of connection does not go away. We femmes share something powerful.

I often wonder what exactly shapes our commonality? It isn't anything purely visual, nor do we all want and like the same things. Some of us love to fix our cars. Some of us hate to pump our own gas. We are single mothers. We support ourselves, and our lovers, sometimes, too. Or perhaps, we are the proverbial stay at home wifely femmes. We wear nothing but Mac cosmetics, or we look sloppy, even worn down. You know the drill, we femmes are young, shiny and bright, and older and wiser, we come in every hue, from every socio-economic class, and probably every country in the world.

We are as different from each other as night and day. And yet, the common thread is undeniable. We'll be exploring this in Femme: the magazine, too. In our premier issue several femmes talk about Coming out of the Queer Closet. You'll recognize strong common story lines in our articles. Each shaped by individual personalities, geographic location and time period. But the bells ring on key. These stories come in sweet harmony.

We hope you enjoy reading Femme: the magazine. We are just getting started so expect to see improvements over the next few issues. We'll be looking for more graphics and we know the interactive experience will continue to mature. Your feedback is a key component of our quality control. Please feel free to drop me a line at editor@stonefemme.com or join our forums .

JoAnn Castillo
Editor-in-Chief

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