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by Nedhera Landers

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by De-Anna Alba
Living Deliberately
by Mowani Carter
The Queering of Femininity
by Susan Craigie

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by Ms. Moneygrrl
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The High Price of Long Distance Love
by Ms. Moneygrrl

When I was asked to write a regular column for Femme: the magazine, I was worried about what I would talk about. I have been working in Accounting for over 6 years. I have a degree in Accounting and I'm working on another degree in Management, but did I really have a clue about what "wealth" is?

I thought long and hard about what wealth meant to me and came up with a simple definition. For me, wealth is having enough money to buy that gorgeous pair of shoes that I just must have, without worrying about where my next meal will come from.

Am I an expert in managing money? No... I don't think anyone is ever an expert. But I have learned many lessons along the way, such as

  • how credit cards can get you in trouble, ·
  • how, where and when to invest your money, and
  • how saving for retirement is a necessity since most companies no longer provide life-long pensions, and few of us stay at one place long enough to get fully vested anyway.

In this column I'll discuss what we do with our money. We grrls make a lot of money, so where does it all go and how can we keep it for that rainy day?

I decided to write my first column about something I have personal experience with; the high price of long distance relationships (LDRs).

In the Internet age, with its email lists and web personals, you can easily get involved with someone who doesn't live in your city, or even the same state or time zone. Isn't it funny how innocent flirting can result in a $400.00 phone bill for one month? Anyway, that's what happened to me!

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