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Transgendered
Butches and FTM's: a uniquely Femme Perspective
by
Sonya Bolus
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Transgendered
Lesbian
by
Arlene Istar Lev
Passing
as the Pope - the Story of Joan English
by
Alison Phipps
c o l u m n
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Health
by
Dr. Lipstick
Wealth
by
Ms. Moneygrrl
Sex
by
SexySuzi
Advice
by
Victoria
Femme
Perspective
by
DeAnna
Butch
Perspective
by
E.T. Turner
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Do you have a burning question? A question that must be answered,
heard and talked about? then... ASK
VICTORIA?
Dear
Victoria,
My
ex broke up with me because she felt neglected and she didn't
feel that I appreciated her-I agree with that! I've since learned
from my mistakes. I am still in love with my ex! The problem is,
she now has another girlfriend-which she obtained only weeks after
our break up. I do not! I have no problem not being in a relationship
because it's my choice and I feel that it wouldn't be fair to
the next person that would want to start a relationship with me.
My
problem is, I still talk to her-at least once a week. I also send
her flowers and balloons from time-to-time. She admits that she
loves them and that she still loves me.I asked her if she was
in love with her girlfriend of five months and she replied, "
I don't know." She said she has a spirtual connection with her.
She said she doesn't just want to break up with her because she
doesn't want to hurt her. My problem is, I love her too and I
want to wait for her; even though I'm dating-not seriously. I
feel she's my soulmate, which is why I choose to wait. Am I crazy!
Do you think there's any hope?
Still
In Love
Dear
Still in Love
Yes,
I would suppose there is always hope. But I feel you should give
this ex of yours some time and some distance to figure out what
SHE wants. You said she broke up with you because she felt neglected
and unappreciated. I would assume since she is with another now,
she found what she needed in her. Now that you have seen what
you lost, you are showering her with attention, gifts, and flowers,
in essense, saying "See, I can be what you needed". Seems to me,
all you are doing is confusing her, and not showing her relationship
any respect. Give them a chance to work it out, and if it isnt
meant to be, fine, but they won't know, if you keep trying to
get her back. If you and this girl are meant to be together, being
patient while she works it out is the best thing you can do for
her, and yourself right now.
Victoria
Dear
Victoria,
My
girlfriend and I are exploring female ejaculation. Can you tell
me about it? How does it work? Where does it come from? What is
the liquid released? How common is it? Most importantly, what
are the signs during love-making that it's about to happen? I've
heard the feeling of having to pee while your lover rubs your
G-Spot is a sign. This has been happening to me lately. Please
tell all!
Thanks,
Anxious
in Arizona
Dear
Anxious
Wow,
what a timely letter! Dr. Lipstick will be addressing this very
thing in her next column! There are also some books on the subject,
one is Good Vibrations Guide: The G Spot. I looked it up on Amazon.com,
and it has gotten many good reviews. You might also try
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· The G Spot -- Alice Kahn Ladas, et al; Mass Market Paperback
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· Finding the 'G' Spot -- Jwaundace Belcher, Marchella Bell; Paperback
So,
check the column, and the books, and relax, its natural, it's
good, and getting "there" is half the fun!
Victoria
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