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Transgendered
Butches and FTM's: a uniquely Femme Perspective
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Transgendered
Lesbian
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Arlene Istar Lev
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Alison Phipps
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Health
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Dr. Lipstick
Wealth
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Ms. Moneygrrl
Sex
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SexySuzi
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Victoria
Femme
Perspective
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DeAnna
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PILLOW
TALK
With Sexy Suzi
Sex
Makes the World Go Around !! {or was that Love?} Well... in Miss
Suzi's book, it's MOST definitely SEX... But what happens when
you're not GETTING it? {oh nightmarish THOUGHT} Whether the reason
is because of tension, job stress, differing styles/levels of
desire between partners, or just plain old BOREDOM...it's my opinion
that it's a SIN {and DANGEROUS} to let that situation go too far.
I'm
sure you, like me, have read all the articles in magazines about
"how to increase your sexual desire" or "10 things to do in bed
to drive your mate crazy" but for the most part, the advice they
gave left me cold. However, the MESSAGE is the important part.
You DO have to DO something. I've found that Sex, like Hunger,
MUST BE FED to survive. After all... if you don't EAT, you rarely
get an APPETITE.. true?? And you don't have to worry about overDOING
it dears... there's no such thing as TOO MUCH SEX !! {although
my best friends DID lose their JOBS over that very thing once!!}
What a MEMORY though!! You can ALWAYS get another job but how
often do you find chemistry like THAT !!
Now,
if the thought of "planning out a scene" or making some grandiose
scheme seems too much like WORK to you, then how about changing
the way you THINK.... for example.... start thinking of it as
something you're doing for YOU. Don't plan the whole thing around
what your Partner likes. After ALL... we Femmes know that, no
matter how much our Butches might LIKE to think they run the show
in the bedroom, we know the Real Deal. If WE aren't feeling sexy,
and aren't responding, the whole thing comes to a screeching halt
With The Quickness !!!
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