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Transgendered Butches and FTM's: a uniquely Femme Perspective
by Sonya Bolus

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by Arlene Istar Lev
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by Alison Phipps

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by SexySuzi
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by DeAnna
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by E.T. Turner

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PILLOW TALK
With Wicked Suzi

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Now.... HOW to accomplish that? The sweet truth is that it's ALL ABOUT US. YES, Princess... we Deserve that trip to the spa, those new shoes....or that massage and facial !! Whatever it is that makes us feel pampered and pretty. Relaxation is the key. If you can, get AWAY from anything that is "normal" for you two. I've found that even going to a hotel in the same city, is amazingly fun and really feels like I'm somewhere different.

But if that's not possible then you've got to do something radically out of the ordinary. Break OUT of that rut !! I remember once, when I'd been single for a year and a half, and without sex that entire time {oh horrific thought} I finally decided I'd had ENOUGH. I dressed up in a sexy black push up bra and french cut panties, high black heels and a dress that came off REALLY easily, made my way to the nearest dyke bar where I'd remembered seeing a Big Daddy Bartender.... sat myself down and waited for closing time. When it came, and s/he'd shooed everyone else out, I calmly walked over to the jukebox, put my quarters in and played "Black Velvet" and proceeded to make that empty dance floor my own private stage.{and YES, I DID come out of the DRESS !!} That Butch stood at the end of the bar and watched every move I made. When the song was over.. s/he said "Your place or Mine"? WEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!!!!

Now, I'm not suggesting that every woman could go THAT far... but I'll betcha ONE thing.. That Daddy won't ever forget ME !!!! My point to all this is that there isn't a butch with a PULSE who doesn't want to be WANTED. And it's up to YOU to make it happen. If your butch isn't giving you what you need... Kick'im to the CURB girlfriend !! I'm sure there are lots of things you have to give up or sacrifice every day, but life is TOO SHORT to deny yourself MindBlowing SEX !! Experiment.... get a little Crazy !! Shake him UP.... go put on something HOT.... something WILD..go outside and risk getting seen or even CAUGHT... .give her a night s/he'll NEVER Forget !!! And remember, the BEST lovers are the ones with NO inhibitions... so TURN on those lights... get in front of the mirror...be adventurous and don't let ANYthing stop you.. cause remember... Use It Or Lose It !!!

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